Perempuan suke topic 18SX??

Maybe aku dah sedidkit terpesong....ha3




Tapi ape yang aku observe....budak perempuan bila laki cakap pasal seks depan diorang, diorang akan cakap, "euuww geli ah..."  "eee xsenonoh..." "dirty minded lah die ni...dah2 g main jauh2" "pervert!" (jerit kuat2 sambil tutup telinga) and macam2 lagi lah...


Ni takde kena mengena ngan sape2 ea..and xde niat nak singgung ape2....hu3


Okay again, maybe aku menempah maut, maap ye kaum hawa sekalian...tapi this is what I can see in my class...but please don't get me wrong,.mane2 pun lebih kurang je...
Whenever ade isu seks rises, diorang akan bkumpul, bisik2, buat2 terkejut lah and terkekeh2 gelak...haha...


And sambil2 tu, dengar lah "eeee yeke??...xtau la pulak..."  "euuwww, betol ke??" hahaha 
Mane yang masih bengap tu akan banyak tanye la....and pade yang expert tu, dengan ghairahnye bercerita...
Dah mengalahkan story telling pulak....
Yang tak tahan tu, ade term2 special diorang bagi utk bende2 tu...haha...
Whatever lah...
Dah macam sex education pulak...


But this is just for 18 above okay...so be open minded...hahahaha.....


bye!

Suke ke tak, aku suami kau!

Salam,...


To be truth, I'm wasting a lot of time these few days. I know I'm in the middle of  'Assignment seasons' and I am supposed to search for some materials for my assignment & etc, but I make use all the time I have to blogging, reading novels, and playing Angrybirds. But its not that bad as long as I'm doing something good for my own self  right? 


At this point of time, the works aren't that much, but still I have to be aware of the upcoming assignments.. Seriously, I tried to do my best in gathering the information for my works, but seems like I can't make it stick in my head for long. One thing that I'm sure at is, 'Money comes and goes, Love comes and goes, and so do this.' Whatever it may be,..I hope I can sail through it smoothly. Hey, I'm sure most of us facing the same thing too right? do ya? do ya?? hu3...^^


Anyway, I'm here again with you in this lovely blog of mine, and I think I wanna share with you guys about something I know to be 'wrong!'  no more 'something I know to be true!'
As I scanning through my Fb home page just now, I found out something,...something I think I don't agree at..


Let us take a look at this...I know some gurls might having the same thoughts like this, but I don't really agree with it.

First of all, I don't really like people who always complain about the work they do. The things which Allah gave to us is more than enough to sustain our life, thus we should be grateful. 'Pekerjaan yang halal itu kan ibadah dalam Islam.' Do it with joy and full of enthusiasm and please do not complain too much. I myself admit that I feel tired too and sometimes think "why did I choose this as my work?" but it is Allah's will and we must accept wholeheartedly.


Okay, next is, she said, marriage doesn't give her life.. What? haha...Are you kidding me?
I don't know about you, but I personally think that there are lots of 'hikmah' of marriage according to Islam. Hikmah perkahwinan cukup banyak sekali. Di antaranya yang dijelaskan sendiri oleh al-Quran dan as-Sunnah, iaitu; >>>>>>> click HIKMAH PERKAHWINAN
So don't simply say that 'kawen lg larr ta de life' okay...


I strongly disagree when someone said, lelaki kuat mengongkong...
Perhaps, in some women out there, they or you might think that men are dominating over women, but to me there is no intention to dominate or whatever, the feeling of insecurity, caring and etc rather extreme that make men like that. According to Islam, after a woman married to a man, the responsibilities are hold to the man himself. Every wives should obey, loyal and do their job as a wife to their husbands. hehe.. but about kacau perempuan kt luar, I don't really sure.. huhu... 


Ape2 pun, suke ke tak, tanggungjawab pada suami perlu laksana! ok!


Read this okay ;
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Nabi s.a.w. bersabda yang bermaksud " Apabila seorang isteri telah mendirikan solat 5 waktu dan berpuasa di bulan ramadhan dan memelihara kehormatannya dan mentaati suaminya maka diucapkan kepadanya masuklah syurga dari mana-mana pintu syurga yang kamu kehendaki".


Hadith Nabi s.a.w. "Sesungguhnya Allah swt tidak melihat kepada seorang isteri yang tidak bersyukur kepada suaminya."

1. Nabi s.a.w. bersabda bermaksud: " 4 perempuan yang berada di neraka ialah
1. Perempuan yang kotor mulutnya terhadap suaminya; suaminya tiada di rumah dia tidak menjaga dirinya dan jika suaminya bersamanya ia mengherdiknya.
2. Perempuan yang memaksa suaminya untuk memberi apa yang di luar kemampuan si suami.
3. Perempuan yang tidak mempunyai tujuan hidup kecuali makan, minum dan tidur dan ia enggan berbakti kepada Allah swt dan enggan berbakti kepada sumainya ( seorang isteri yang bersifat begini akan dilaknati Allah swt kecuali bertaubat)
4. Wanita yang tidak menutupi dirinya dari kaum lelaki dan keluar rumah dengan menampakkan perhiasannya dan memperlihakan kecantikannya (untuk menarik kaum lelaki).

To find out more, click Wacana Muslimah^^




Okay I think that's all for now. 


Till we meet again.


Have a nice day everyone...






^^

After one week hols

Assalamualaikum wbt and hello again...

After 9 days of resting at home, its time to go back to ipg,...I'm feeling rather happy for at last I had a great time at home with mum and my niece...hehe.....But then, now its time to say goodbye as I need to go back and do my duties,...hehe...Actually there are few works to do and seriously I need to refer to my books so much. Sitting at home, there's nothing much I could do these few days, plus with my laptop had broken down. Now I have my new one, so it eases me to do the job....(enough said)
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Oh yeah, no wonder I feel so bored, I already finished my reading on 'I miss Mummy' by Cathy Glass. I remember I said about it last time, but didn't have the chance to write anything about it yet.

Okay here it goes, basically the novel is based on the true story about a young girl named Alice that has been separated from her family by the social services, and she has been sent to live with Cathy (the writer) for almost ten month before she got to live with her father whom she hasn't knew before. She lived with her mother before and after her mother got ill she was sent to live with her grands, there she got the love and attention from them. Although she was 4 at that time, she was able to understand the whole situation took place.

For Cathy, she look at Alice's case at a different perspectives, she thought that Alice's mother and grandparents parented her very well. Alice doesn't look like any other foster child Cathy had look after before. She looked well cared and everything seems okay. It was only started  when the neighbor heard Leah (Alice's mother) screamed and thought that she screamed at her daughter, hence they called the police and there where all began. As you go along the story, like I did, I never agreed that  Alice will be given to her father and her stepmother as they didn't even met and all Alice knew was she had her mummy and dada and nana. Chriss (her father) never showed up after Leah got pregnant. And because of him, Leah got stucked with drugs.

All in all, drugs indeed cause many negative impacts. Alice was the one who suffers from all these, she lost her mummy, dada and nana. It was quite sad to hear and see a little girl going through many bad things during the childhood time. Despite all that, Alice indeed a strong girl and she managed to get through her rough time with the help of her foster carer, Cathy. The story was told by the writer herself and by her point of view. It is really interesting story and made me realize how important family institution to us in the early stage of life.

Did Alice manage to live together again with her mummy and grandparents? and Did she gets the second chance to sit and watch football with her grandpa?
"I Miss Mummy" got all the answers....

I think that's a little taste of it. I'm still looking forward to get another Cathy Glass piece of work.


THat's there is..

"Toodles.."

Hope it all gone in the blink of eyes...>_-"

It's been a while....

I missed my blog so much....I can't go online and update anything in this blog as I have some kinda problem with my laptop..hehehe.....and soon enough I'll get another laptop....too lazy to repair....
To umi,if she reads this, hehe now you know why am I keep asking about the 'stuff' we talked about yesterday...huhu


Anyway, to my Chinese friends out there, Happy Chinese New year!! Its late! I know...
Don't blame me for this okay,..


Though its been several days the holiday has started, I didn't venture any exciting thing at home, except watching over my niece. I'm so glad to see her grown to a beautiful girl...Now she's officially one year and we share the same zodiac...^^


Last week was terrible for me, as I feel like I was having a bad luck the whole week. On friday, I lost my shoes at Masjid, and my laptop broken down!! oh my...and the next day, I went to tg Malim with my friend to buy a new laptop charger, and you know what, it was raining heavily until I had to wear raincoat all the way long to the kedai.!! pissed off! And after I went home, the charger couldn't function! another disaster! I had to ride my motorbike again that evening to change it! What a day! I was like, what the hell is going on to me?? pfft


There are few more, but its not right if I talk it here...like I'm blaming the takdir for all these to happen...


Thats all...


Thanks for viewing...^^

Salah PAham?? Why?

Asssalamualaikum wbt and hello everyone!

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In today's post I would like to share with you about miscommunication.


"What the heck are you talking about?" 
"I don't get it...pfft"
" I don't get what you mean.." 
"Sorry, can you repeat it?" 
"I bag your pardon?..." 
"I don't understand what you are saying..!" 
"Hell what?" 
"For heaven sake, can you speak louder? I just can't hear you!" 
"What?"
"Huh?"


Sounds familiar? no? Actually, these are some examples, that we often used when something is not right in our conversation with our partners. But sometimes, people just walk away and nod to us even though they can't understand every words we said. 
While I was reading a magazine, and I came across the word communication. And while I was scanning through it, and I said to myself, "hey why don't I look up for something on the net about miscommunication?". I still remember that we talked about this in class last year.


When we talk to people such as our friends, teachers, parents and or even sales girls, we are actually involved in interpersonal communication. Why we need to communicate? Basically we communicate to exchange messages, express our feelings, to give and get order, and to ask  and etc. If the people we communicating with understand what we are saying, then we can be said to have a successful communication. 


However, we also experienced our listeners or audience fail to understand what are we trying to say, and end up getting confused, angry and upset. This can be said as miscommunication. There are many communication styles, but I don't want to talk about it today.So we can just proceed to the causes of miscommunication. 


Okay, in our daily communication, language has always been seen as a channel between people but language also can become a great barrier when two or more people who are talking fail to understand each other. Do keep this in mind that misunderstandings can occur at any time between two or more people who are communicating.


You know what, miscommunication can caused someone to be a at a wrong places, or late for a meeting, or get a wrong info or whatever. In most terrible cases, it concerns about life and death, you know, not informing someone effectively that the breaks of a car are not functioning could end with a tragedy. of course we don't want this to happen. Do we?


There are many reasons this to happen. For example, in English language, there are many words that have double meaning. I think its the same as any other language right? In linguistic we learn about homophones. Basically, homophones is the study of words that are pronounced the same but differ in meaning. In other hands,the words may spelled the same, but carry different meaning we call it homograph. Let me give you some examples to look at. 


>SAW : gergaji (noun)
>SAW : past tense for 'see'
>BARK : sound made by dog.
>BARK: the outer layer of a tree
>ROSE : a flower. (noun)
>ROSE : past tense for 'rise'
>TOO : adverb
>TWO : a number


and how about this one >>>>> "Ice cream" and "I scream" ? hehehe....^^
                                                     "Example"   and  "Egg sample"? hehe


In the above words may have the same pronunciation, spelling,but different meaning. There are many more, list them all if you can...
Miscommunication can occur when listeners assume they understand what the speaker means when in actual fact they probably intended a different meaning. 


Besides, the problem also caused by different culture and language used. This happens mostly to the second speaker of English like me myself. My mother tongue is Bahasa Melayu.  If the language is translated and used in English, it may cause confusion to native speaker although most of the words can be understood. The direct translation can really caused misunderstanding and sounds illogical. For example, try to translate this phrase direct from bahasa to English., "jatuh air muka", if translated to English is "fall of water face". Doesn't it sounds weird? hehe
Similarly to English language itself. We can't simply do direct translation as it can cause miscommunication. (Me myself will try to avoid doing that)


We live together in Malaysia with different races and culture. And not to forget, even though we can understand Bahasa Malaysia very well, we also encounter difficulties in understanding with the Malay language that spoken by the Kelantanese and Kedahan of their own slang and accent. Accent and slang also one of the factors that can cause miscommunication between speakers. Similarly if we learn new language, we might experience some misunderstanding due to the accent and slang.


Oh yeah, noises from our surrounding also caused this to happen. Have you ever face the situation where you can't hear the words that bursted from your friends mouth? And you just keep on asking him to repeat the same words again and again, and finally the both of you get fed up...hehe...YEah... sometimes our conversation is interrupted by the noise from the road, loud music, the sounds of all kind of machines and what not. Basically, noises one of the factors, alright...!


So that's it. By realizing all this causes of miscommunication actually can help us to improve our communication skills. 








Thank you for reading....
Have a nice day! ^^

Macam "taik"?

Okay, tajuk pun dah merepek....

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No offences, and not that I want to insult anybody or what eh, no! A big NO for that...(yelah sgt)

Actually, I just wanna ask you guys, have you guys ever had a friend that always doing "faces" with you while you're talking?....or in other word, imitate the way you talk with weird looking faces....

haha....To be honest, I'm the one who always do that to my friends, and obviously they kinda got mad and felt annoyed..hehhe....

But its fun! mocking people....! Wanna know how it feels like? try lah...

Okay for me, 'taik" means not good la...a bit harsh, you think?

And I also call people that always "bajet bagus" as muka taik!, and those bajet bagus people also do the same to whom they think 'lame', but actually for me, they themselves are lame and 'taik"...

Haha...when I see these bajet people...I just avoid them and then again I could see them doing the 'taik' faces from far...hahahah....

Sorry for telling this 'taik' thing....

bye!

G'day people